Dr
Margaret answers emailers’ embarrassing problems
in this monthly problem page.
Nail-biting
Dear
Dr Margaret
I’ve got a nail-biting habit, and often I don’t
know that I’m doing it. How can I stop?
Biting your nails can be a very difficult
habit to break, and motivation is the key. You must be
really, truly keen to stop. You obviously realize that
your habit is off-putting to other people. It also invites
medical problems such as swelling and inflammation of your
gums (gingivitis), and if you bite the skin at the edge
of the nails (cuticles) you may develop painful infections
around the nail that can lead to scarring or even loss
of the nail. Damage helps wart-causing virus to enter the
skin, so you could develop warts round the edge of the
nail. Another possible consequence is a herpes infection
of the finger, if you bite your nails when you have a cold
sore on your lips.
A step-wise approach is the best method of stopping. Ragged
nails can be a focus for nail-biting, so the first step
is to trim or file off any irregular edge. If your nails
are bitten right down, this may not be possible initially,
but when the nails start to grow again make sure you keep
them well-manicured.
The second step is to work out why you are biting your
nails. Here are a few questions to ask yourself.
- What was going on in my life when I started
to bite my nails?
- What
emotions make me bite my nails? Are there particular ‘trigger’ situations
that make me bite my nails that I might be able to
avoid?
- What are the situations
in which I do not bite my nails?
- Is there some problem in my life that is causing
stress, which I could sort out? (In fact, this
may not help a lot because nail-biting often starts
during
a period of stress, but then continues as a habit
after the stress has been sorted out.)
The
third step is to buy some bitter-tasting
nail paint from a pharmacy. This is specially
made to prevent nail-biting, and you will usually
find it in the nail care section of the pharmacy.
A scientific study found that this ‘aversion
therapy’ works quite well, especially
for people who bite their actual nails but
not the skin around the nails. For people who
bite the skin, painting around the nail does
not seem to work, because the bitter substance
does not stick to the skin for long enough.
Some
people get used to the bitter taste, so the
nail paint is not always a permanent
cure. You could then try the fourth step, the ‘competing
response / habit reversal’ method. This
simply means that whenever you feel the urge
to bite your nails, you do another action instead.
For example, you could wear an elastic wrist-band,
and snap it on the inside of your wrist whenever
you feel the urge to bite your nails. Alternatively,
clench your fists tightly with the thumbs inside
against the palms of your hands for a minute
or two; if you are in a situation where this
action would be inappropriate, you grasp some
object instead. Scientific studies have shown
that this method can be surprisingly effective
both for nail-biting and for nibbling of the
skin around the nail.
For this method to work, you must train yourself
to know when you are biting your nails, which
can be difficult. Ask your friends and family
to help by immediately telling you whenever
they see you nail-biting.
You can take comfort from the fact that a
lot of people are struggling with this habit.
More than 6% of students say they have a nail-biting
problem. After seeing close-ups of himself
in The Return of the King, Elijah Wood (who
played Frodo Baggins), announced he would stop
biting his nails, having been a nail-biter
since childhood. Britney Spears and UK Chancellor
Gordon Brown are also said to be nail biters.
Sources of information
Ballinger BR. The prevalence of nail-biting
in normal and abnormal populations. British
Journal of Psychiatry 1970;117:445–6.
Silber
KP, Haynes CE. Treating nail-biting: a comparative
analysis of mild aversion therapy
and competing response therapies. Behaviour
Research and Therapy 1992;30:15–22.
Twohig
MP, Woods DW, Marcks BA, Teng EJ. Evaluating
the efficacy of habit reversal: comparison
with a placebo control. Journal of Clinical
Psychiatry 2003;64:40–8.
Previous
Problems